I am seeing a guy. I've posted about him before. He's the first guy I've dated after an abusive relationship and I'm his first relationship... Ever. He confessed to me that he does not have a penis. His parents were abusive and got drunk and mutilated him when he was 13. He said he understood if we couldn't be together and this was his first time trying to date. Tonight we were kissing and I took my close off. He was scared to take off his. He had already showed me before. I told him not to be ashamed. He took his clothes off. We made out. He went down on me... And I will just say. I accused him of lying to me about never being with anyone because how tf is his tongue that grade. He just blushed and said it was his first time. I came really hard. I asked what he would like me to do to him and he said he doesn't really know but it doesn't matter. I want to make him feel good somehow. I feel there has to be a way. I've heard some people say things about guys and butt play because men can orgasm when having their prostate touched. I just want ideas and a nice way to bring it up to him while being sensitive. I've been trying to be as sensitive if possible. Some advice I got on my last post for sex is strap ons and I haven't even suggested that because I do not want to embarrass him. I really just want to at least try to make him feel good like he made me but he has no idea what he would want.