Is this too much for a “friends with benefits”?

I’ve been hooking up with this guy for 2 years. We tried to be together but he broke it off and since then tells me doesn’t want anything more. Which I feel like would be fine. Except I feel like he does too much for someone who claims we’re “just sex”.

* I go to his house to have sex, he always wants to “hangout” or talk. I remember one time when he (again) told me how we’re just sex. So I said fine but I wasn’t going to hangout, sex only. He told me that if I couldn’t do that, he’d be done. Or after sex, he’ll just start talking to me and sometimes I mention going home. He’ll say “okay” but then just still keeps talking.

* He tells me he “worries” about me with other guys and is always paranoid I’m doing something with them (made me promise I’d only have sex with him)

* He says he “gets frustrated” if I don’t communicate with him

* He wants to talk every day all day long