Dramatic?

Ok I need to seriously know if I’m being dramatic. My close friend kept sending me reminders about her birthday gathering and I ignored it only because my daughter just recently turned 1 and she didn’t wish her a happy birthday and it wasn’t like she didn’t know because SHE DID, she was invited to the birthday party & on top of seeing it on social media. She texted me again and asked if there was a problem between us and I told her “girl you didn’t even wish my daughter a happy birthday”. Her response was “She can’t read so why does it matter?” 🤨 I’ve wished her son a happy birthday countless times & he still can’t read but it’s the thought. Maybe I am being dramatic but you would think my CLOSE friend who I’ve known since middle school would wish her a hbd. How would you feel? I’m open to hearing any and every opinion & seeing it from a different perspective