Four months or so ago, I was living really unhealthily. I was working overnight shifts at a job, that worsened my already bad mental state, where I was in a relationship with a controlling and abusive guy. There was a girl who got hired in (I want to say) March(?) at my boyfriend’s request and it definitely went really bad really fast. I think my ex was making me jealous of her on purpose. I admit that when we talked, I was mean about her at first. But then I realized I was being a bitch for no reason and apologized to her endlessly. She accepted it and we were fine. Idk if her and my ex were “working together” (he’s done that before) or he told her things to mess up my friendship with her (he’s done that too) but she ended up flipping on me and making a bunch of drama and turned my best friend against me. I realized this place was only becoming increasingly toxic and quit. I haven’t bothered her, when my ex talked about her I would only wish her well, I moved on and decided to work on myself. I’m working on dealing with toxic behaviors and relationships. I also had a still birth and miscarriage that I went through completely alone. So I’m definitely not the same as I was a few months ago. But my ex told me that she would talk about me still, to new hires, his family, etc. I just saw her for the first time when I was doordashing the other night. Even then, I was nice to her and told her that I hope she’s doing okay. She slammed the window and walked off. I just shrugged it off. Had another one and I could hear someone screaming to her that I was there and then heard her screaming something about me. So obviously she talks about me to whoever listens still I guess. Idk I just don’t get it. I know I was wrong too. But that was months ago and I apologized. I haven’t bothered anybody at all and I’m not making any trouble, just trying to make side money.