Im trying to figure out if I need to take a step back on this co parenting that my fiance have going on. So, I am a mother of 4 children an 1 step child. He has a babyma who been was not respectful with our relationship in the beginning she put my fiance on child support when she found out we was having twins. So, she kept her daughter away from us because of he moved on and she thought they were going to get back together. Now, her child is in kindergarten and having a hard time with school comphrending her words and colors. Long story short we had an agreement that since she is working her grandmother can't watch her because of her heath then we can help so she would need to drop her off and then we will have her then on Sunday we'll drop her off at her grandmother's. Now out of sudden she decided to get another Job and then start school mind you her daughter is with her grandmother most of the time or with us. Furthermore, since she added more to her plans so now she wants the father to pick her up and drop her off like we didn't have any plans. And I work overnight while my fiance works days I loose sleep already in the morning I have to drop my Fiancé at work then drop my daughter's at daycare then I head home in try in get some sleep. On Saturdays I told my husband okay so I wont work overtime so I can help watch her because my fiance has to work to because of the child support gets taken off of his paycheck. So now with all this going on she stated if he doesn't pick her up and drop her off he won't see her again and “that's my word”. Mind you that's my fiance she is disrespecting and he doesn't see that. He wants me to pick her up mind I have to go to work then drop her off on my only day off. Then I work Sunday night he can't drive because of a DUI. I feel like will I be creating a problem if I set boundaries because I spoke to my fiance he told me he don't see the issue and his babyma is not the problem and I am.