Am i overreacting?

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So the other day a friend invited me to a concert cause a friend of hers was participating in it. After the concert we went backstage and i got to meet him but after that i just went to my home and they left together cause they had a party to attend. The thing is that my friend shared with him my instagram and i feel conflicted about that because i don't really like that she shared it without asking for my permission first (im very selective about the people i let into my life, and even though my profile is public that doesnt mean its open for anyone) i barely even know him and right know im not in a place of my life where i want to know people and frankly i dont know his intentions, im not even looking to make new friends, much less a boyfriend.
So yeah thats basically it, i dont know if im overreacting that she shared without asking me first, like i want to talk to her about it but at the same time i feel like its stupid to feel this way, like i feel this would be a problem a teenager would have but im 25 like i should have bigger problems right?
Sorry its too long, and sorry if the english wasnt perfect

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It’s your Instagram, not your number. Just remove or block him. And your profile being public does mean it’s open for everyone… Make it private.

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You're selective yet your profile is public? This is ridiculous.

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It doesn’t sound like she’s trying to set you up with him lmao. you can remove people from following you on Instagram and if you’re that serious about keeping people you don’t know off your social media then you should make it private

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Yes I think youre overreacting. If youre feeling that closed off then make it private. Sharing someone's social media, especially if it's public, is not an invasion of privacy, nor does it mean hes trying to be your bf. Also I dont know you but your thought process makes me wonder if you need therapy. Im pretty private/introverted and am not actively seeking friends but if I happened to meet someone I wouldnt shut that out either or automatically wonder if their intentions are bad. Im wondering if you have a lot of healing to do if you think that way and closing yourself off to any possibilities of social connections.

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You sound crazy. It’s only a “problem” because you’re making it one. It’s really not that serious lol. And him following you on instagram does not mean he wants to date you.

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Quite literally, having your profile be public does actually mean that it's open for anyone. So if you don't want your profile public, make it private. Then people will know that you don't want your Instagram given out. Really this is not her fault. Common sense would tell you that a public profile can be followed by anyone. ￼

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You’re overreacting. Your profile is public so yes anyone can see it.

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Yes, you’re doing way too much. A share of an instagram name or a follow doesn’t mean y’all are in a relationship or will end up together. That’s what people our age (I’m 25 too) do, it’s a way of networking. If you want to be that selective your page shouldn’t be public, if you follow her and he does too he could’ve found your page anyways from the people you may know feature.

Am i overreacting?

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