Need Some Advise ❤️‍🩹

I’ve been feeling pretty down the past three days because I was dating a guy I was excited to get to know better. On Thursday, he sent me a voice note saying he felt that while many things aligned between us, some differences might affect our relationship in the future. We had plans to meet on Friday, and we’d been chatting almost every day since we first met.

I suggested we meet in person to talk since I prefer having clear conversations face-to-face, but he only offered to give me a call. I declined because if he wasn’t willing to meet up and talk, it made me question the point of pursuing this conversation further, so I said goodbye.

I have a feeling he got emotionally close and then freaked out, backing off suddenly. I’m assuming this based on something he shared before, but I’ve been left ruminating about what went wrong because it felt so abrupt.

He mentioned he was looking forward to seeing me too, but as soon as he decided things wouldn’t work, he decides to tell me right away. It hurts even more because there were no signs that things were going badly. He didn’t want to let me go the last time we saw each other, so it feels completely unexpected, and with the holiday season approaching, it feels even more painful.

I’ve thought about reaching out to ask what exactly went wrong, but I also noticed he reconnected his Bumble yesterday — so he’s back on the hunt.

I’m also wondering if he’s the type of guy who waits for women to show more interest before pulling away on purpose. I’m just so confused and would really like some insights.