Trying to conceive Lubricants

We are TTC baby number 2 and I used pre-seed with my first after 8 months of trying with no luck. I used it once and conceived …..and had zero problems with it.

I used it 2 months ago and got pretty much sick for 5 weeks …..I’m pretty sure it was the cause . I had internal burning, cramping ……was extremely bloated and just felt a ton of pressure on all my female parts . I even had an internal ultrasound because I was in so much pain but everything was clear and it got chalked up as severe reaction to it.

Anywho, what else is out there ?! And you think it will have the same affect ? Because I do not want to go through that again !