Sexually frustrated

I am a 27 year old female with a body count of 2 and from the 2 partners I did have one was very dominate and let me do nothing he liked to be in charge and on top as for the guy I lost my virginty to he wasn't dominate but he wasn't an open person making me comfortable yet not comfortable enough to ask questions. I was literally just trying to lose my virginity and get it over with but, now I don't have ether guys in my life and I want sex I want to be adventurous a “whore” in some peoples eyes but I don't know how to ask men for sex I feel like men find it weird to be asked that kind of question or am I just overthinking here