Idk what to do for Thanksgiving

I don’t know what to do.

For all the holidays, we go to my families house and my boyfriends families house.

My family lives 10 mins away and my boyfriend’s family lives almost 2 hours away.

We normally go to his families first and then rush to go to my families. But my family eats already, so by the time we get there, everyone’s done eating

For today (Thanksgiving) , his family said they are eating at 2:30 and my bf told them we would be there. My mom texted me today and said they are going to eat at 3:00 and asked if we could be there.

My mom gets upset if we choose his family over mine and his mom gets upset if we choose my family over his.

So I don’t know what to do. I asked my boyfriend if he should go to his families and I could just go to mine, and he said he doesn’t want to do that.

We can’t have holiday parties at our house because it’s too small, Ive also never made a thanksgiving meal before in my life lol.

For those of you that have to go to multiple houses for holidays, how do you make it work???