Am I over reacting?!

My husbandand i have been married for about a year now. When i met him, i was 260 pounds. When things got serious with our relationship i decided to lose some weight because i was embarrassed now fit he was and how large i was standing next to him. So pretty quickly i lost 64 pounds. We ended up going on a road trip and he proposed to me and everything is going great but theres something that keeps coming up. every day!!! My weight..... he wants me to lose more and more and im so fucking stressed i gained 10 pounds!!! Im back at 210!!! I eat everything right and maybe once a month i eat something processed because I have PMDD and it helps me be in a better mood. One chocolate bar will last me a whole week! And he will give me hell for it every time. Even honey he tells me is as bad as doughnuts or peanutbutteris worse then hot pockets.. i feel like i cant eat anything right and im so stressed i dont want to eat anything... im on the spectrum and have food sensitivities so im eating farm fresh foods and doing the best i can.... i want to cry. I feel like ill never be able to get thin enough... today is my birthday so i had ice cream and pizza... i know thats a lot but tonight i wanted a snack . Pomegranate with a tablespoon of honey.. he lost his shit on me. Im the bad guy. So i lost it! I told him hes being a dick and needs to lay off. Of courseI feel horrible but also feel like he needs to stop dictating everything i eat.. im an adult and got this.far without his advice. I know.he wants me to be healthy but if i want some honey on my food or oat meal for breakfast i.should be able to do that!!! Im i being a b1tch?