Like what do I do?? Find someone else?

Serious question. The sex is meh because of his size (yes I’m aware it’s out of his control) but I’m serious when I say he’s the size of my middle finger, length and girth wise, even the average condom is too big and baggy on him. Anyways, it’s hard to feel him and the only positions we seem to always do (I’m pretty sure for him because he knows) is just prone bone or me on top but he slips out or even if I grind I don’t feel anything when I ride, so he’ll be the one to do bucking sort of speak and can’t even reach my cervix, and no I don’t have a deep vaginal canal lol. I know like “oh just use hand stimulation or oral” but if that’s the only way, I feel that defeats the purpose of sex with him if intercourse is pretty limited due to his petite size. He seems to enjoy it but I’m not and I’ve communicated what I like or don’t like and he doesn’t seem to listen and does what he wants for his pleasure. Advice?