Thoughts

After being remote for 3 years we’re not back in office and have been going on a year. Well, there’s a girl on the team that talked to me almost daily via text or phone when remote. I noticed things changed when we returned to office. She’d only talk to me when nobody else was around and the text and calls stopped completely. It even got to a point where she stopped speaking and avoiding me. So I returned that same energy to stay out of her way. Well, yesterday she sent me an email and copied our manager which was about something she could have simply turned around and asked me or pinged me. It pissed me off because the email she sent did not call for our manager to be included at all. I promise lol. So another girl on our team and her would talk but that stopped once I started hanging with the girl she talked to. Idk why? SMH. So now the other girl and I have been curious as to what we’ve done to her or why she purposely exclude herself from being a team player. I’m not saying be our friend but at least be cordial. Okay, well I felt like returning the “petty” energy and brought everyone a Christmas snack except her. This lady hates my guts for nothing!! What would you do moving forward or how would you have handled it? I feel like we’re in elementary school again.

Can’t forget to add, I would always send her encouraging memes and double check her work when she asked me to. Idk what the hell happened 🤷🏽‍♀️