TRIGGER - Going crazy

My best friend has been seeing this married man but says he’s “separated” for the last 7months.

She knew at the beginning I didn’t approve of it and I didn’t believe the man was even separated as he still lives in the house with his wife and 3 young children.

I asked her about 4 months into their relationship is she’s being careful as she’s not on contraception, she said no but she knew her own body and when she ovulates and wouldn’t get pregnant.

I’ve been trying for a child with my long term partner for the last 4 months, which she knows about for the last year and has said I’d love to be pregnant the same time as you.

She found out this weeks she’s pregnant.

He says he’s not gonna support her, he has 3 kids already. Even though he had told my friend he would love to have children with her some day and they will be together forever.

During this 7months she stopped telling me about him, about the arguments because she knew I don’t like him.

I’ve never even laid eyes on the guy, they sneak around, never been away for a night together met any friends or family, nothing.

She has gotten very defensive and angry with me in the past over saying he’s not single and he’s having an affair, and she was adamant he’s single and they’re just working through how to co-parent. Even though they separated over 12 month ago. He also went on a sun holiday with his separated wife and 3 kids during the summer when my friend was seeing him. But he said they just wanted to let the kids enjoy the summer and not change their routine….

My friend is now starting to see clearly because she said she’s only realising he’s been love bombing her this whole time. She doesn’t know if she should keep the baby or not as he said he won’t be supporting her…

I tired to help her so much and make her see clearly months ago…

What can I do to help now 😵‍💫any opinions?