He gets so mad

Whenever I bring up something that bothers me he calls me insecure . History of disrespect and cheating and etc. I am a little insecure and I hate that for my self. He has done me so wrong over the years and I take him back and hope things changes. He had my number saved as rat snake when he was mad at me during an argument and that hurt my feelings . He said I’m a snake for going in his phone. We’re married why so many secrets and why keep women in your life that you may have dated or tried to sleep with on Instagram etc. I am married and trying to save my marriage . He said I make him want to leave me when I bring up anything I discovered he has done . He’s not nice he’s not reassuring he only wants to have sex of course and give me a little money twice a month for bills like $150 which covers maybe one bill. I’m so depressed I think I need a therapist

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Jo

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Therapy and a divorce. Stop trying to save a marriage that he isn’t also trying to save. You will wear yourself thin. Leave him.

Ka

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And a divorce. You need a divorce. Have some respect for yourself.

Re

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Yes, you need a therapist but you also need to divorce him.

Em

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Oh love that depression will goes away when you leave that man & heal… you’re worth more than what he’s willing to give you… don’t settle for this, there are men out there that wouldn’t have you feeling like this… he’s just not that man for you… it’s time to drop that load, rest and heal from that pos

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Marriage takes both people to want to be ONE. There’s no room for cheating. There’s no room for secrets. He wants to act single while married and he wants you to shut up about it. So stop talking and file for separation at least. Therapy is definitely a good idea.