My husband and I can't stop arguing about my phone use

He gets mad when I answer my phone. He gets mad when I ignore it. He gets mad when it's on my pocket, purse, or I put it away and ignore it.

It seems no matter what I do, it's the wrong thing. He will message me when I'm driving and then get mad that I don't text back. I told him that you know I'm driving so why are you texting me? The one day I stopped at Starbucks and he texted me while I was there, so I texted back. He gave me an earful about texting and driving so I sent him a picture of me in Starbucks and said I wasn't texting and driving, I made a pit stop.

Tonight he got mad that I answered a text while cooking so I said fine, I'll put away my phone. So I finished dinner and sat down to eat. As I was cleaning up he told me "answer your goddamn phone". I said I'm cleaning up so I'll get to it in a second. He told me to stop ignoring my phone. He said his mom was texting him asking why I was ignoring her. I told him that if she wants an immediate reply, call, otherwise I get to texts when I get to them. He got mad that I was ignoring her.

I got mad at him and said what do you want from me because at this point no matter what I do with my phone it's the wrong thing. He got mad and said he didn't know why I couldn't just "use my phone like a normal person".

I don't even know what to do at this point other than be like, "Can I use my phone? Is it ok with you?"

Edit: I just don't know what to do because the last two weeks everything is a fight. I ask him if he's mad or needs space and he tells me no

Edit: I told him how I feel about it and he laughed and said "Yeah while you can feel however you want it doesn't make it true". I told him that his attitude sucks and he told my attitude sucks. I asked him what the hell is wrong with him and he said "Nothing. Stop asking me that." So I just let it be.

I honestly don't know what's going on with him.