When did you announce ….

I am 8w5d. Got my 1st ultrasound last week. Work friends, my mother in law , a few friends and now my aunt knows I’m pregnant. I am dreading telling my parents and the rest the family members. My family, is super toxic and not ever happy each time I was pregnant. My mom wanted my daughter whose 15 to be my only child then few years later I had my son whose 8 and she only wanted it to be only both of them. I feel like I should just get it over with . But I’m not so sure.

How long did you all wait??