Are these red flags?

Question

I have a fairly new bf (not 6 months yet) but he has several social media accounts and he said he want to delete it he barely be on it. Like a lot of ppl say that but ok. Then I was talking about Snapchat and he said it’s lame but I saw a girl sent him a snap… and he claims he’s barely on ig he’s following 800 ppl and when I posts he watches it so he’s definitely active on there. He also get notifications from other apps so it’s just like why r u saying things u don’t mean I could’ve kept that to yourself. there’s a reg flag from another post that 90% of ppl voted he was seeing someone so I just want to see if this supports it or not.

Answer

Having the accounts is not a red flag. Saying that he wants to delete them but not deleting them is a red flag. Saying that he is barely on them but very clearly active is a red flag. Have you tried confronting him about it and asking why he felt he needed to lie to you about it? Do you follow him so you can see what he is posting and commenting on? Fid you say anything when you saw the girl send him a snap after he said snap was lame and didnt use it? That right there is the biggest red flag; why does he have girls sending him snaps when he has a gf and has been telling said gf that he doesnt use it or use his other socials when he does behind gf's back?

Answer

Tbh if you’re only 6 months into this relationship and he’s making you have doubts or worry about red flags, get out. It’s still new and you have so much time to find someone who treats you the way you want to be treated. Find someone who never makes you second guess. Even if he doesn’t treat you bad, your true love, the person you’re meant to be with, will never make you feel doubt or insecure. Having these insecurities only 6 months in isn’t healthy. Good luck love 🤍

Are these red flags?

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