2nd trimester not feeling pregnant at all

I’m in my 2nd trimester and I don’t feel pregnant at all. I’m tempted to just go get ultrasounds to confirm I’m still pregnant but that’s expensive and idk the lady would probably look at me like I’m crazy if I kept showing up lol. I’m jealous of my friend she’s due in April and way ahead of me.

I think she found out in July and I found out in November so I’m way behind her. She’s getting ready for her baby’s arrival and I’m impatient to get to the 3rd trimester stage where I can feel the baby all the time and actually have a baby bump that’s the baby and not food I’ve eaten from the day. Idk I should just enjoy this time of feeling normal before I become big and can’t sleep because I’m getting kicked at night.

I’m just barely 14 weeks so I’ve got awhile to go and I get nervous because I have dogs and a daughter and I have to get physical sometimes like picking up and dragging my daughter out of Chuck E. Cheese when she doesn’t want to leave or push the dog off of me when they jump on me. I have a large dog so I worry about her stepping on my pelvic/stomach area on accident.

My first pregnancy I didn’t have large dogs or a child so it was less worrisome. How do I deal with the worry of not feeling pregnant?