Even the TTC group has turned to mums!

This is a pure vent and trigger warnings apply.

Back story:

We are 7 year TTC now and have 1 egg collection canceled with low follicle count, 1 that went ahead and gave us 3 embryos. the first transfer was ectopic (lost my left tube), second miscarried and the 3rd never stuck.

Then have a natural pregnancy which miscarried.

Now after a 6 month break we are back to egg collection.

I have been with a TTC message group for a couple years and it has now been renamed to a mom group because most are mothers. I’m so incredibly happy for them but I feel alone again. They have moved on and even though some are back to TTC the group is quiet because they are understandably busy with their little families.

I don’t feel like it’s the best place to gain support and reflect my pain because the dynamic has changed. They would never say anything because they are wonderful woman but I just left behind.

I would never leave the group because I want to celebrate the wins for them but I’m feel like I back to being a solo struggler if you know what I mean.

Anyway wish me luck with my next plan collection in late march. Maybe I’ll be feeling less alone then.