First time mom in need of advice

Hello community! I’m a first time mom here, due November 7th. I know it’s a bit early but I was hoping to get some advice regarding whether or not I should get an epidural. I’ve heard so many good and bad stories from both sides, but I would love to hear some more opinions on pain, how it affected you during and after, and if you got the epidural did you notice any major side effects or problems later on. I hope this will clear up a few things for me 🤍