Should I apologize for shitting on a sahm

I made a low blow recently. I haven't been doing very well because last month I lost my baby to SIDS. I'm a working mom. My two other kids are biologically my husband's but I adopted them. I understand sahm get shit on and I never wanted to be a person who does that but I find it funny how some sahm will complain about mom shaming but have no problem mom shaming working moms. This woman who I only see because I'm apart of the pta made comments my entire pregnancy. About how it must feel nice that I'll get to be a part time mom and she can't understand how a mom could not want to be around her baby all day. My baby was gonna go to daycare at 3 months. Unfortunately. He didn't make it to 3 months. She said how the daycare will be raising my kids and I did say so are the schools raising your school age kids. I needed to get out of the house. I can't just cry all day. My daughter had a soccer game and that mom was there. She said sorry for your loss. I said thank you. Then she says "Look on the bright side. Your son won't get in the way of your career since that was more important than staying home with your baby." I snap and say "When your husband leaves you for someone younger and hotter and you can't get a job because sahm on a resume for 10 years doesn't look very nice. I'm gonna laugh right in your face." I should not have said that. But I also do not want anymore interactions with this woman. I don't wanna apologize because fuck her but some people think I went too far and I should