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ok so i had my “first time” the other day idek if i would consider it that bc it didn’t fit and it just hurt really bad idk if it’s normal to hurt that much i ddint bleed we used a lubed condom and it doest hurt when i use my fingures i just feel really bad idk what im doing wrong and i don’t wanna dread the next time i try… we did do foreplay before hand and i was in the mood any tips ???