Still feeling upset with my friend
This is a post regarding to me TTC so it should be allowed on here, but I’m still really upset with something my friend said to me I did end up crashing out at her the other day and telling her she shouldn’t be saying stuff like that to me and I don’t want to hear it at all and she’s pissed me tf off, but I been TTC for 3 years and the other day my friend told me she wants her 3rd child her bf wants to come off contraception now but she told me she said no because she’s so fertile she will get pregnant so quick which is fair enough but I feel like every time we talk about my journey or baby’s anything like that she always brings into the convo how fertile she is I don’t see why it needs to be said all the time? And then she only turned around to me and said to me she’s spoke to her bf about having another baby and she turned around and told me she’s gonna have the gender reveal test form 6/8 weeks and if it’s a boy she is gonna get rid of it and basically said she’s only gonna stay pregnant if she has a girl (she has 2 boys already and wants a girl) I don’t see why she would say that to me at all?? She did apologise to me and then said to me if I am pregnant I’m not gonna tell you probably because it’s not nice for me to say hey I’m pregnant but I’m gonna get rid of it because it’s a boy but she shouldn’t of even told me in the first place what her plans were in the future, but I think I’m gonna end up cutting her off if she pisses me off anymore because I can’t deal with her honestly, probably sounds really bitter but idk how I would feel if i found out she was pregnant and did that I wouldn’t have no sympathy tbh and she isn’t gonna come running to me when she’s done this to herself because my feelings weren’t valid when she said this to me 😳feel like im over reacting about it but not at the same time do I have a right to be feeling angry and upset still???
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