I can’t orgasm from sex

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time now and Everytime we have sex it feels mentally and physically stimulating however Î still can’t get that big orgasm.. I’ve had feelings of my body getting warm and feeling emotional and happy but I’m not sure if that’s an orgasm or if I was close to getting there… I can make myself squirt but that doesn’t even feel good like a clitoris orgasm does for me.. that’s the only way I play with myself now is only my clit, I don’t use a vibrator and I’ve been masturbating for about 9 years now the same way.. at least 2 times a week.. I think I messed my body up from masturbating too much. What should I do in order to reach that orgasm internally.