I don't know what to do. He spends the world on me and buys me everything,but I don't really want that. I write him letters and leave them in his room and I will clean his room for him. I'm 17 and I don't have a job yet so I can't really buy him everything but I use any money I get...and I'll buy him stuff. I know he's planning on marrying me soon but I'd like him to be meaningful...he's to focus on fancy dates and expensive things. Talking to him about it doesn't really help either.