New relationship

My husband and I were seperated at the beginning of last year. I started dating and what have you and met someone well my divorce is being finalized and I'm kinda wondering when is it too soon? Some days I'm on an emotional divorce roller coaster and other days I'm fine, chipper and loving life. My boyfriend wants to get a place with me he's been there ever step of the way. I got married young to someone who didn't even come home to me at night and embarrassed me in more ways than I care to explain. I'm terrified of getting hurt again