Am I being irritational or ok?

Question

I want more sex with my husband. I try begging, pleading, trying new moves, suggesting new positions or toys, etc. Most times i just end up taking care of myself. If i had it my way it would be couple times a day or at least once a day. He would rather once or twice a week if I'm lucky. This is the biggest fight in our marriage. Am I being unrealistic to want it all the time?

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I'm not sure "irritational" is the word. I'm guessing you meant irrational. In either case, it's ok for you to feel this way, but it's not ok that you're begging, pleading, and otherwise making him feel bad about something he likely can't control.

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My man wants to have it like 3 times a day, I can't keep up...

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I hit other because it's perfectly acceptable for you to want more; you're always going to have one person in a marriage with higher libido than another.... That being said, every day is a lot for any couple! Before we were married, my husband and I said definitely every day, but after marriage, we realized that it wasn't realistic!
 You have to be willing to meet him in the middle; maybe 4-5 times a week instead of every day? :) Take care of yourself in between times if that's okay with you and your husband ;)

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There has to be an equal balance. I do think it's unfair of you to ask multiple times a day for sex. Not everyone has a high sex drive and people have different wants and needs. Obviously this is interfering with your marriage. You need to talk to each other about this and find common ground.

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I kind of get jealous of women who have so much sex drive. I get so tired at work and with all the chores I do at home that I just feel like I don't want to do anything or don't have time for it most of the time. He is the same way. We do it 1-3 times a week or sometimes less and we both are completely happy with the way it is.

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There is a group SO's who reject sex or something similar. 
I don't think we are irrational - I would have sex once a day but we are lucky with a few times a month if that 😕

Am I being irritational or ok?

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