What would you do??

Long story short, my so is so very hypocritical!! His ex cheated on him, and mine ex cheated on me, I get having some trust issues, but he seriously always thinks I'm up to no good, and when I ask why he thinks that he either says he's playing, or if he's been drinking, it's because I was looking at other men( when really I was watching the tv) or I really wasn't fishing with my mom, but he goes to the bars without me, which I'm cool with just as long as he keeps contact from time to time..but I have never went out to a bar without him, by choice..but tonight he's out n was talking to me , then just drops all communication...oh and he has female friends hit him up randomly..but won't respond to them while I'm with him, n just says he hasn't talked to them in a long time...I just feel like he's very one sided n shaddy....is it just me or would you feel the same way...any time I try talking to him about the female friends he just says I'm jealous...I'm just annoyed