Want to get a little crazier...

My entire life I've known I was a very sexual person..lol I discovered the wonders of self pleasure when I was about 11. At this point I am married and my husband is the only person I've had sex with. Lately I've found myself wanting to be more out of the box try different things but I don't really know what to try or how to get him to try different things. He doesn't really like going down on me (boo). Pretty much all he can do is kiss me and bang me. I'm almost nervous to tell him what turns me on because I feel like I'm just into weird stuff..
​Also I have been having "fantasies" I guess you could say about having partners other than my husband. I would NEVER cheat on him but I just wondered if that was normal?