Im a guy in my late teens and I really want to take my relationship with my SO further, but whenever we try to try somethin new, she just shuts down... I ask if she wants me to go down on her, and she just looks at me as if I've shot her. I have also asked her if she wants to have sex elsewhere but in the bedroom - same look. I really dont understand her and whenever I ask why or why not im not forceful... I hate forcing people to do stuff... I dont know if I need to grow a pair or what... please help Glow Community...