My husband has recently started putting me down and disrespecting me in front of his family. I've been dealing with depression, he's supposed to be helping me. All he does is put me down in front of his family and my in-laws. He has done this so much in just the past month that I don't even want to leave my house in fear of embarrassment. He's always telling his family that i'm lazy, can't cook, can't clean, can't care for our child when all I do is cook, clean, and care about everyone around me. I know a wife is supposed to care, prepare, and take care of her husband but I didn't know she's supposed to do EVERYTHING including pick his clothes and run his shower water. I have to do everything for him and I mean EVERYTHING as in cook, clean, care for the child, pack his lunch, cook for him at 3-4 in the morning when he comes home wasted, run his shower, provide food for his friends with no notice, clean after his parties I didn't know about. I'm sad to think my marriage is failing, I'm not giving up though. I've known this man for almost 9 years, married for a year this month. He hasn't ever acted or disrespected me the way he is now. As his wife, I'm willing to help him but he's a tornado every time I walk in the room. He destroys everything with the temper of his. He gets angry for no reason half the time. He has been hanging with friends and drinking a lot lately but he is a very different person now then he was just a month ago. I'm concerned and confused. Is he cheating? Is he doing drugs? Are his friends influencing him in a bad way? I don't know.