Wine while pregnant?

So my 21st birthday is next week and I am 15 weeks pregnant.....I would love to go out to my favorite restraunt and have a small glass of wine. Has anyone else drank wine while pregnant and everything turned out fine? I am not a drinker and I haven't dranked at all since finding out I was pregnant...I know everyone has different views about it but I have asked my doctor and he said 1/4 of a cup would be fine if it was red wine....just wanting to see if anyone else has drank any while pregnant? No bashing please.....