I've been having a tough time with having a bowel movement lately and when I do it kinda hurts. Today I noticed after I went my whole anus was sore and swollen with a few teeny tiny dots of blood. My butt is so sore and now I'm afraid to have another bm. I'm 13 weeks 3 days and just wondering if any of you have a similar problem. I see my obgyn on Friday and wonder if I should tell her. If I do, what would she do? This sucks.