Husband rant

Can anyone sympathize here? My sweet little girl is almost 8 weeks old and I feel like I am resenting my husband so much. I am now back at work full time (my husband also works full time) and we have a nanny during the day. I am so excited to come him from work and be with my little girl. My husband comes home and is in his own world, spending most of his time between his cell phone and laptop.  On top of that he is always making little comments about raising the baby and how we should be doing certain things differently which makes me want to strangle him because he has no idea what he's talking about because he hardly knows what is going on with the baby all day! For example, he doesn't want to put the baby in the swing or give her a pacifier because he doesn't want her to get dependent on them. Or he will say he's tired and go to bed when there is so much to do for the baby and not to mention I wake up 1 1/2 hours earlier for work than we does.  It's to the point now where I am resenting him all the time and getting irritated with every little thing he does. I really don't want to keep nagging him or snapping at him, but he is driving me up the wall and I don't know what to do.  I need a partner here, not another baby. The bug hardest part for me is that I thought our baby would bring us closer together, not push us apart.