What would you say/think if your man/woman said???

Hey ladies(gents):

Just curious what you ladies/gents(if any) would say/think/feel or do if your significant other told you they dont feel your relationship is equal because they have spend over a thousand dollars on you but you haven't done nearly the same in return for them? Although your there for them in other ways thats not always financial & when you do have and there is a need you do what you can to show support....

for example they run out of gas for deciding its more important to buy a pack of cigarettes than to make sure they have enough gas to get home from work...so you spend the last $45 you have to your name to rescue them more than 40miles from home and dont even ask for the money back...

or provide gas money to them often because they spend wrecklessly (which is often) and dont have money to get to and from said job, make sure they have food to take to work, you provide all the groceries, pay your part of rent and all your own personal bills (car note, insurance, phone, and share in other expenses like soap powder, tissue pampers, wipes etc)

he/she used your vehicle more than you do and return it you (because they finally got their own) with bad breaks, to the point they could have failed when you and your (our) child(ren) was in said vehicle.

spends money on your kids that aren't his/hers just to throw it in your face later that he/she does more for your kids then you do for theirs....just a few examples but their are many others..would you feel this person loves or respects you or your "relationship"?? Thanks for input