Hiding not drinking, only 4 weeks in and I want to hold off til at least 8 weeks.

In my pre pregnancy life I definitely enjoyed some social drinking. My college girl friends and I are all getting together at our friend's (the only bachelorette pad of the crew) for a slumber party of sorts (yes we are in our 30s). So the intent is to sit around drinking, eating and not driving.

If I even think about using the I am not feeling well they will be suspicious.

The only idea I had that doesn't make me break out in hives with anxiety is buying a six pack of regular twist off beer and a 6 pack of non alcoholic beer and swapping the beers. Has anyone gone to this length? Does it work?

And don't get me started on the post holiday work dinner with open bar next weekend. I really didn't time this well... but my college roommates are much more nosey than my boozy coworkers.

Any advice would be very appreciated!