First black and Hispanic baby in the family

Dasha
First mixed baby in his family and every one reminds me of it all the time I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant but I hate getting calls from my MIL every day checking on me only because my SIL is pregnant to and she doesn't care people ask her questions about the both of us and she just talks about me she only buys stuff for me and I know my SIL has to be hurt because I would be and I feel bad for her I can't really enjoy my pregnancy I don't know my husband said that's just how his mom is and I should just enjoy being pregnant it's kinda hard especially since she is farther along then me and his mom is planning a baby shower for me Am I just being pregnant woman in my feelings is there anything I can do to make her feel special about her baby?