Make Scars Fade?

I have tons of scars "down there" from such bad ingrown hairs I get from when I used to shave all the time. My current BF doesn't care about the scars or if I shave but I feel so self conscious about the scars on my pubic mound... I feel like they look like an STD or something. I have tried cocoa butter and suntanning and a few other things but nothing seems to make them fade. Does anyone have any tips?