Marine wife or in the marines

My husband and I are currently in medical school and he's thinking of joining before finishing school would you recommend that ? How is it being married to someone in the marines ? What's the bad part ? What are the good things ? How does off base housing work ? Is there any benefits for the wife ? What benefits is my husband going to have ? Would they work with his school schedule ? I know there's a lot of questions but I just don't want him to make the wrong mistake and I want to support my husband but what if I can't be a military wife , we are very very close to each other we only have each other no one else . So being separated just frightenes us .