Preparing for Pregnancy Advice Pls

Julie

Hi my name is Julie and my husband and I both just turned 28. We have been married almost 2 years (together for 9) and we are starting to think about a family. What are the unexpected things you wish you had known about/figured out before your 1st child? I know that $ is always something to consider and child care which we have talked about but any other advice would be so helpful!Thanks!

Julie -NYC