HELP...Baby Shower etiquette

Melissa • 1st time mommy to be 🍼/wife/hair and makeup artist
Is anyone else possibly hosting their own baby shower? I don't have family or (super close girl friends) where My hubby and I live. Everyone is asking me if I'm having one, but  nobody's offered to host it SOOO....what's a first time excited mommy to  be suppose to do?!? Anyone else in the same boat? 🤔