I hate him, is it the hormones?

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I'm quite desperate. Lately I hate my fiancé. I hate his existence, I hate listening to him, I hate when he touches me... He annoys me with everything he does or says. It has never been like this before. Is it the hormones? I feel like immediately cancelling the wedding and running away. 9w pregnant.

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It's the hormones. I hated my fiancé for about four or five months. I couldn't stand hearing him snore. I felt like he was always yelling at me and criticizing me and was just so mean and he never helped out. I started sleeping upstairs. Made a distance between us that only made it worse. It felt like I had a roommate more than anything. Finally one day, I snapped. I didn't know what to do anymore. After I screamed and went on a rampage things got better. Actually they've never been so wonderful!

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I've hated my boyfriend since the beginning and I still hate him at 35 weeks. I think it's 50% hormones, 50% his stupidity.

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It's hormones!! Just give it time. I felt the same way but I actually did call off the wedding and we broke up for a while. Thanks goodness my husband is the way he is and waited for me. I still feel bad about it today. Just wait it out and see how you feel about it in a few months.

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Hormones are a pain. Didn't feel like I hated my husband, but off and on in the first and second trimester I didn't want him touching me, or talking to me. Heck, even his breathing and chewing got on my nerves...and unfortunately I've felt the same toward my 4-year-old. >___< Still dealing with more of those negative feelings towards her and it's horrid! she feels so high maintenance right now, I dread mornings and having to start the day with her hyper activity, prattle, and obstinent tendencies. Can't wait to have my body back and have my hormones level out. I feel like an evil mommy, findigg patience with her is such a struggle. Less that 10 weeks to go...come on baby!

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I think it's just hormones, we'll I atleast hope so. I hate everything about my husband one minute and the next minute I couldn't love him enough. I just scream and  ask for a divorce then ask for my food I'm craving. He gives me food and a letter that says divorce?! No chance in hell!

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Just the hormones

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definitely hormones , I get the same way and he tells me all the time "why do you hate me so much" , "your so love and hate with me it kills me" , blah blah blah but I don't mean to be like that ..sometimes he does things I don't agree with too so it makes me distant myself from him because I'm so annoyed or just become a crazy woman because I get so builded up ..so I understand completely.

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I hated my husband through first and second trimesters. I noticed it was getting bad so I ended up talking to him about it. And somehow things magically got better. Like. I can't get enough of him. I call him on his 3 breaks at work and we spend our time together after he gets home from work.... Even when he cooks dinner I'm sitting on the counter next to the stove.

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I was the same way I went and stay with my mom and it barely went away I hate hearing him snore. I prefer to sleep by myself I'm all the way at 39 weeks.

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It's hormones . I feel this way alot. For example. ..my toddler woke at 5:15 this morning.  Told my husband be said that sucks then went back to sleep.  Grrr!! Feeling murderous.

I hate him, is it the hormones?

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