Abused??

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Have you ever been abused? If yes what type of abused. I'm a young lady n I've been though it all at so young. N I feel like giving up. I know I'm not alone but I sure as fudge feel like it. I wish I knew someone who said " I been there n I made it." It that u please comment your story or don't have to I just wanna see how many people didn't let what happen to them destroy there life. Here is the questions. Have you ever be abuse?

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I've been abused many different ways..the one that got to my the most was I was pregnant with my daughter and my ex boyfriend started hitting me and he pushed me into a wall..and I started bleeding very badly I went to the hospital and they told me that I lost my baby..I was so hurt. I went home packed my things and called my mom and told her to come get me..I was done getting hit on..I went to the doc too days later and my baby was still they alive and doing very well..Now my daughter is 3 months old and I would change her for the world she is my everything..and I don't let her see her father at all..cuz i dont want anything to happen to her like it happened to me..:)

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Hey, you aren't alone. I was in an abusive relationship for three years. I'm 19 years old now and I got out of the relationship a little over a year ago. When I was 15 I met a 22 year old woman that I thought was attractive. She assumed I was 18 and we talked since we knew each other through friends. Time went on and she found out about my age and didn't leave me then my mom found out and was extremely against it. In year two we had to hide our relationship from my mother unless she wanted to get sent to prison for pedophilia. So we hid our relationship and she cheated on me for a year and a half, mentally and verbally abusing me daily. telling me I was crazy and worthless and that nobody will ever love me but her. So I stayed. I was almost 18 when the physical abuse started. She would push me into the wall, choke me, slap me, punch my back my chest and upper thigh so my mom wouldn't see the bruises. I was terrified of telling my mom. One day the "woman" I was with got me kicked out of my home that I had lived in for 4 years with my mother and a few months later got us kick out of our home I paid for, for stealing while I was working and our roommates where at the fair. As my previos SO was packing up our things at 2 am I hid in the bathroom and slit my wrists. I called my mother crying and confessed the things she did (other than the physical abuse-i was to ashamed-) and she took me out of town for two weeks. I told my old SO I would be gone for a day and I was gone for 2 weeks. I came back to town and she told me she was leaving to Oregon in the next month but she would kill herself if I didn't continue to sleep with her. So I did. When she left I didnt know how to feel. I was scared for months and I still have a lot to get over, but thankfully I put my faith in myself again after seeking medical help and taking small dosage of medication for my depression (pre existing). I also decided to invest my time in getting my first job starting college and a wonderful man

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​My ex boyfiend would say I needed to work out. He would ask "have you worked out today?" "Did you do our squats?" "I wish your butt was bigger." "Do you really need to eat that?" "You don't need seconds." And he would only buy me hollister and ambrocombi (don't know how to spell it) clothes. I'm the kinda girl that shops at Salvation Army..
​He was trying I make me into a girl I wasn't.
​After we broke up he set my current boyfriend car on fire, broke into my house and stole everything he bought me, and slashed a hole in my riding saddle and riding boots.. Oh did I mention he stalked me and called me about 50-100 time a day. Unanswered . I've had some tough shit. If I can do it. I promise you can too.. 
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When I was really young there was a lot of domestic abuse happening in my house. I've blocked out pretty much my entire childhood because of it, and beyond physical violence, I'm not 100% sure what happened. When I was 13, I was regularly raped by my boyfriend, and it took years of depression and eating disorders along that before I managed to get him out of my life. Things are a lot better now, but I still worry over my fear of men /:

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I’ve been physically abused and verbally abused

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​I was verbally and emotionally abused from my dad and my most recent ex boys friend. 
​My dad would call me a horrible child, horrible daughter. This would happen on rare occasion but one time he back handed me and gave me a fat lip because I refused to do the dishes. Another time he told me to clean my room and I said no, because I was depressed, so he trew me on the ground by my ankles. I told him if he ever did that again I'm leaving. I say back down and he did it again so I ran away. Havnt spent the night there since.
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Rape, emotional, verbal, molested.
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​I was raped/molested from 2/3-5/6 grade. Can't really remember. 
​It was my best friend half brother and EVERY time I went over there something in tht nature would happen. We would play these "games" where we'd make body parts out of clay and the other person had to touch it, of course he would always make a penis shape.. And when ever my friend and I would take baths he would come in and give us little notes about what he's going to do to us, or what were going to do.
​I hardly remember any of my childhood because of this.. Just looks black in my mind when I search of happiness for those days..
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