What lube to get😀

Hello I'm Mariah, hope you're guys days are going good or went good to start off(: well I have some problems with sex, I lost my virginity about 4 months ago and it still hurts a little and only in certain positions. Also the condom keeps breaking I think because it's to dry. We have never used lube but want to. I don't know what to get, I want a lube that won't cause the condom to break, yet I would like the lube to have a spermicide in it for extra protection. I am on the pill too so I never really worry to much but nothing bad about even more protection when it's possible. Can anyone reccomend some good lubes that could work well for me?(: please share if you do!! Thank you all in advance!