My fiancé and I have been having great sex for 5yrs now but I never quiet had an orgasm! But recently we started watching porn for new ideas on how to spice things up and as we have the porn going and he is fingering me and playing with my clit I FINALLY had an orgasm! Best feeling ever so now when we don't watch porn I never really get all the way there!!! I can't depend on porn! What do I do???