I work in a grocery store, and today I had my shoelaces untied because my feet hurt. A customer entering the store pointed it out and said to be careful. Nice right? When he came to the check out he asked if I tied them, I said no, and he offered to do it for me, I'm clearly big an d preggo, nice right? I said no thank you, my feet were hurting and I wanted them untied. He then says "oh youre swelling huh?" I said yes and thanked him for the offer. He then asks me if my baby daddy left me...wtf? Where did that come from? One-I'm wearing a wedding ring (this isn't against unmarried mothers at all)