When my boyfriend and I talk about men who have a wife or girlfriend going to the strip club I get so mad. Just the thought of another woman touching my man makes me sick. The conversation started because we were talking about his bachelor party when we get married. His brothers are the type that would kidnap him and take him to one. I told him that if that happened I would call the wedding off. Why if you are happy do you need one last hoo-rah ? Shouldn't you of got all of that out of your system before you decided to be in a relationship?