BFN @ 12 DPO...is there still hope?

Hi ladies! I'm so frustrated right now, I took tests w/ FMU at 11 & 12 DPO and both were bfns 😞 I see all these stories on Glow about people getting BFPs at 9 or 10 DPO & read the hpt boxes that say they can detect pregnancy so many days before your missed period, so I'm losing hope for this month. Glow says AF is due today for me, but I don't think I'm due until 2/14 (I usually have 30 day cycles). I think I'm gonna wait and test again on 2/14 (I will be 16 DPO then), but do you think there's still a chance for me? Or should I not get my hopes up this month?