Not telling anyone I'm going into labor🙊

My boyfriend is in the marines and will more likely than not not be able to be at the birth of our daughter. We decided my mom and best friend would be in the room for the birth. I have zero desire for people to come to the hospital and visit me before baby is born and right after the birth. Also, I want my boyfriend to see pictures/video of his baby girl before we introduce her to the rest of the family. I'm a pretty private person and don't want everyone posting pictures of her all over Facebook ect before her father even gets the chance to see a picture of her. SO me and my mom are on the same page about telling nobody except my boyfriend and best friend that I'm going into labor/going to the hospital. I am a little nervous that my sisters and his family and my other family members will be offended I didn't tell them but at the end of the day it's my little family and my decision and everyone else will just have to deal 💁 just wanted to vent thanks ladies😜